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		By: Becca		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 19:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks guys for the ... thank yous! :) And good luck to everyone starting their sites. I&#039;m sure there will be more trials coming my way as well very soon. 

 Debra - Some of that is a matter of time. There have to be comments for people to feel like they can comment too, so that might take a little while.

The other thing you can consider is how approachable your site is. If it&#039;s sort of stiff and impersonal, that might turn people off to posting. Jon Bard&#039;s post earlier this week also talked about connecting. If you build a personal connection with each of your followers, they&#039;ll feel more like they know you and be inclined to leave comments. Some ways you can do that are emailing them, finding them on Twitter or Facebook and starting a conversation, and stalking them IRL, showing up at their house, having a cup of tea with them and demanding why they don&#039;t comment more often on your blog. (That last one is extreme and should only be done under the direst of circumstances). 

The Twitter question...
There&#039;s no real formula as to the percentage of advertising vs. Actual Things People Want to Hear you should be posting on Twitter. But in order to gain followers you&#039;re going to have to do more than  say &quot;Click here! Pick me! Pick me!&quot; Trust me, advertising has its place, and you&#039;re going to want to do a lot of it. But it shouldn&#039;t all be that. The subject of your site would be a good launching point for what you&#039;re going to tweet about. Then people follow you. Then you share links about your blog. 

What you don&#039;t want to do is spam. (A great article about that here: https://www.thebookdesigner.com/2012/07/yo-author-you-spamming-me-cut-it-out/ ). People will unfollow you faster than a minnow out of a holey baitless net. 

As I said earlier, build a connection. Don&#039;t say &quot;Click on my link and then buy my book here,&quot; but ask them questions about their own writing or reading and start a relationship. They&#039;ll be much more eager to look at your site. 

Finally, make your blog interesting enough to tweet about. If you have a Tweet about your blog that says &quot;3 essential writing conferences to go to before you die,&quot; (followed by a link of course), well, now I&#039;m interested. At the end of the day, your blog should (coupled with your expert social networking) speak for itself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks guys for the &#8230; thank yous! 🙂 And good luck to everyone starting their sites. I&#8217;m sure there will be more trials coming my way as well very soon. </p>
<p> Debra &#8211; Some of that is a matter of time. There have to be comments for people to feel like they can comment too, so that might take a little while.</p>
<p>The other thing you can consider is how approachable your site is. If it&#8217;s sort of stiff and impersonal, that might turn people off to posting. Jon Bard&#8217;s post earlier this week also talked about connecting. If you build a personal connection with each of your followers, they&#8217;ll feel more like they know you and be inclined to leave comments. Some ways you can do that are emailing them, finding them on Twitter or Facebook and starting a conversation, and stalking them IRL, showing up at their house, having a cup of tea with them and demanding why they don&#8217;t comment more often on your blog. (That last one is extreme and should only be done under the direst of circumstances). </p>
<p>The Twitter question&#8230;<br />
There&#8217;s no real formula as to the percentage of advertising vs. Actual Things People Want to Hear you should be posting on Twitter. But in order to gain followers you&#8217;re going to have to do more than  say &#8220;Click here! Pick me! Pick me!&#8221; Trust me, advertising has its place, and you&#8217;re going to want to do a lot of it. But it shouldn&#8217;t all be that. The subject of your site would be a good launching point for what you&#8217;re going to tweet about. Then people follow you. Then you share links about your blog. </p>
<p>What you don&#8217;t want to do is spam. (A great article about that here: <a href="https://www.thebookdesigner.com/2012/07/yo-author-you-spamming-me-cut-it-out/" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.thebookdesigner.com/2012/07/yo-author-you-spamming-me-cut-it-out/</a> ). People will unfollow you faster than a minnow out of a holey baitless net. </p>
<p>As I said earlier, build a connection. Don&#8217;t say &#8220;Click on my link and then buy my book here,&#8221; but ask them questions about their own writing or reading and start a relationship. They&#8217;ll be much more eager to look at your site. </p>
<p>Finally, make your blog interesting enough to tweet about. If you have a Tweet about your blog that says &#8220;3 essential writing conferences to go to before you die,&#8221; (followed by a link of course), well, now I&#8217;m interested. At the end of the day, your blog should (coupled with your expert social networking) speak for itself.</p>
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		By: Debra Rosenberg		</title>
		<link>https://diymfa.demo.cmsminds.net/community/blogs-are-scary/#comment-494</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 17:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks so much for this post!  I recently started a blog and am having a hard time getting followers and getting people to comment...despite the fact that I add a question at the end of most posts.  Any suggestions?  Also, how often should you post the name of your blog on a Twitter account?  I don&#039;t want to be a pest.

Thanks]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for this post!  I recently started a blog and am having a hard time getting followers and getting people to comment&#8230;despite the fact that I add a question at the end of most posts.  Any suggestions?  Also, how often should you post the name of your blog on a Twitter account?  I don&#8217;t want to be a pest.</p>
<p>Thanks</p>
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		By: CRFS		</title>
		<link>https://diymfa.demo.cmsminds.net/community/blogs-are-scary/#comment-493</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jul 2012 05:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks for posting this. I&#039;m just getting into the stride of things with a blog shared with a few colleagues and will soon (gods willing and the crick don&#039;t rise) be finished with my author/writing personal site soon. Your post helps keep the fire burning, so to speak.
Keep up the good work!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for posting this. I&#8217;m just getting into the stride of things with a blog shared with a few colleagues and will soon (gods willing and the crick don&#8217;t rise) be finished with my author/writing personal site soon. Your post helps keep the fire burning, so to speak.<br />
Keep up the good work!</p>
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